QUESTION: I want to give my DJ a must-play song list, but I think it might be a little longer than he's expecting. It's important for me to hear the music my fiance and I love that evening, but I don't want my DJ to think I'm insulting his creativity. Is there a proper way to go about this?
ANSWER: It's standard practice for DJs to ask for a must-play list from the bride and groom – in fact, it makes the process easier on them. If you provide your DJ with a list of songs you love, he can begin figuring out when to play them.
The best way to maintain a good relationship with your DJ is to keep open communication as to which songs you want to hear and which songs you don't. From there, your DJ can take over by covering your favorites as well as mixing up music to keep your guests on the dance floor all night long.
My fiance wants to include his dog in our ceremony, but I'm not sure how this will work logistically. Any suggestions?
More and more couples are incorporating pets into their wedding ceremony these days. You can either have your dog walk down the aisle (on a leash is best to ensure that it won't run away) or have one of your attendants carry your pooch.
The key is to assign someone to keep tabs on the dog to make sure it gets down the aisle – and in case it needs to leave during the ceremony.
You might also consider dressing your dog for the ceremony. Specialty pet stores and online sites offer everything from tuxes to bridesmaid dresses and tiaras for dogs.
Carley Roney, co-founder and editor in chief of The Knot, advises millions of brides on modern wedding etiquette at theknot.com.
